Tuesday, July 26, 2011

SAHM - Day 1

From July 4th parade (their first! G, A, B) - WHO gives out POPSICLES on a 90 degree day???  It was a sticky mess :)
Well, I feel like today was my first day of being a Stay At Home Mom (SAHM) even though my last day or work was 22 June.  Curt left for Doha on Sunday and Peggy is off of work on Mondays, so I still wasn't completely on my own until today.  All in all it went well.  We had our first skype call with daddy after breakfast, then we went to a park to play and have a snack, then we came home to get out of the heat and humidity (it's not Doha hot, but it was pretty uncomfortable) and yes, they watched Cars.  To be fair, while we were in CO last week for cousin Jeff's wedding, they pretty much begged all week to watch ANYTHING and they didn't get to.  We had some lunch, they took deliciously long naps, then after nap they played in the sprinkler until grandma K got home.  All in all a really good day. 

As I was watching the boys run around the backyard, i kept thinking "wow, I don't have anything else I need to be doing or thinking about right now.  For a change i'm not trying to think through an issue at work, or feeling like I have a dozen emails to respond to, or minutes to type up from a meeting.  I get to just sit here and giggle at my kids shreiking as they run through the sprinkler.  This is awesome."  Then I got up to "be a monster" and chase them around the yard.  Now, i'm sure not every day will be this idyllic or easy.  I may even get stir crazy, but the fact that it definitely felt manageable and FUN was great.  And it is true, the boys are SO well-behaved when it is just one person there.  No one to play against the other. :)

Some other highlights of the wedding trip.  The boys got to spend some quality time with cousins Jadyn, Noah and Gabe, we saw some cliff dwellings (i.e. several hundred year old kids climbing equipment), went to see the Royal Gorge (way awesome!), saw Tom and Kyndra and Jordan and Hutson, saw Claire and Mike and Jackson, Charlie and Henry and not only did we walk the kids through a small part of the Garden of the Gods, but Curt and I had a little date night there on his last night in the US.  We did a short challenging hike which was fun to see if we still had any fitness for hiking left in us, climbed some rocks and got to sit and talk until the sun set.  And the of course went to get some homemade ice cream! :)  Why would ANYONE go to a baskin robbins if there is homemade ice cream within driving distance?  I mean really.

PS I apologize for there being no rhyme or reason with pics on this post.  It's being cranky and I wanted to get these up sooner rather than later. :)

Brady and Jadyn

Jadyn and Aidan at her b-day celebration

B, G, A and Hutson and Jordan Wilson and Tom & Kyndra's in CSprings - too fun!


A,G,B and Henry, Charlie and Jackson with mom and Claire in CSprings

Garden of the Gods the day dad had to fly back to Doha.  Brady wasn't very happy (B, A, G)

Gavin gets a good snuggle before dad has to leave

Aidan and Gavin were being so cute at dinner one night holding each others' hands.  Melts my heart . ..

Brady with Uncle Chad on the Royal Gorge incline railway - i think he's having fun, don't you? :)
In other news, Aidan's been cleared to go without his sling as of yesterday.  The Dr. said the bump that is scar tissue around the break will dissipate in 2-3 months and then there will be no outward sign of the break.  The other good thing is that he broke it in 2011, and not 40-60 years ago!  The nurse who checked him in told me this AWFUL story about how she broke hers about 60 years ago and how for 6 weeks straight she was TAPED in a figure eight on her body (to mobilize it) and she STILL remembers the Dr. ripping the tape (and her skin) off and then retaping her every few days.  I just want Aidan to know how fortunate he is that medicine and understanding of the body has advanced!  I will take him whining about the sling (which he only did the first day or two) over ripping tape off of my kids body for 6 weeks ANY TIME! :)
A local junk yard has "Tow-Mater'd" an old tow truck.  It was way cool (A, B, G)

Monday, July 11, 2011

Centrifugal Force: 1, Aidan's Clavicle: 0

Well, we have been on our vacation for just over 2 weeks, so we were bound to need a little more excitement in our lives, right?  This morning, Curt and I took the boys to the local park to play before it might rain.  They were running around and having a BLAST for a good half hour.  This park has one of those single post centrifugal force pieces with the small foot piece at the bottom.  Brady had asked Curt to spin him on it (slowly) and so he did a few times, and then of course held it still for Brady to be abel to get off. Aidan then decides he too wants a spin and I hear Curt say "Now let me know when you want to get off" as he begins to spin it (I was watching Gavin play with a pinwheel in one of the yards that butts up to the park), when all of a sudden I hear the "pain" cry.  Aidan is laying on the ground next to the equipment (torture device?) and is just SOBBING.  He is also FILTHY as he seems to have been flung off of it into the dirt and woodchips.  Curt tells me that after he told Aidan to let him know what happen, Aidan proceeded to just let go of the equipment. Physics is not on your side when this happens. So Curt and I are both giggling a little bit as we try to clean Aidan off and help him calm down.  Aidan then proceeds to sit in Curt's lap the ENTIRE rest of the time we are at the park (a good 30-45 minutes).  This is pretty unusual, even for Aidan, but we sort of chalked it up to it probably scared him/knocked the wind out of him. 

When we get him home he is still whimpering and wants to be held.  For the next 2 hours.  I'm starting to think we probably need to take him to see someone when I pick him up to put him in his booster for lunch. As my hand goes under his left arm pit, the poor kid COLLAPSES into tears and a scream of pain.  I try to calm him, and take him to the couch to do some light poking and prodding.  It is clear his collarbone is what hurts and it hurts bad.  I get him back in his seat for lunch (it's urgent, but not an emergency) let Curt know after lunch i'm going to take him somewhere and then get stuff together.  Since it's sunday afternoon, no walk in clinics are open (though I figured he'd need an x-ray anyway) so our good friend Julie Carroll, Aidan and I head for the ER.  We were seen by a nurse in about 5 minutes, the dr. about 30 mins after that, and had our xray completed within an hour and a half of arrival.  Aidan even got a good hour and a half nap sleeping on me (so yummy!). Not too shabby.  The Dr. was great and said Aidan has a "Green Stick" fracture.  The bone has "bent", but it's not a splintered break like an adult might get and isn't such that it needs to be reset.  That's the good news.  He also says kids this age tend to heal much faster than adults, so 6-8 weeks might not be how long before it's totally healed and he said he will feel noticeably better MUCH before that.  The bad news is, he DOES NOT like wearing the sling (it's basically meant to be a visual cue for him, us, his brothers to go easy on that arm) and if he falls again he could make it worse. 

We get home after our trip and Julie says her good byes and we explain the situation to Brady and Gavin and then Uncle Matt, Grandma and I take the boys to Culver's for some greasy, yummy fast food and ice cream!  I mean, it IS our first broken bone.  I only wish I could know it would be our last. :)  Curt and grandpa are actually in Iowa City looking at the top two houses Curt and I had viewed yesterday when we went house hunting, so we kept them apprised with updates.  They were jealous THEY didn't get to go to Culver's with us. :)

I will admit, in the past any time I have heard about kids this young getting a broken bone, I have always sort of wondered about it.  How could it REALLY happen to a kid unless they weren't being properly supervised, yaddahyaddahyaddah.  Well, I shall now dine on all of those accusatory thoughts. :) 

I'll update with some pictures of the boys on our summer adventures soon! :)